August was quite the whirlwind of a month. I almost can’t believe it’s over but at the same time, I’m glad it is. The month started out by me spending a lot of time with family, celebrating my brother’s wedding, having no idea what I might do for a job, and feeling very unsure about myself and my future. Then suddenly, great opportunities presented themselves to me. I was beginning to feel very proud of myself and excited that my life was finally looking full and successful. In some ways it still is, but I now find myself with some part of that missing. I was hit with a blow that quaked the steady ground I had just discovered. Vinnie, the goofy and characteristic person I’ve wrote about many times on this blog, decided our relationship shouldn’t continue. There are things in his life that he has to focus on right now that I can’t understand or help him with. As much as I feel that I’m struggling with all that I have on my plate, I know it doesn’t come close to what he bears every day. Maybe he thought I was finally at a place where I would be okay without his support, and he used the opportunity to end our relationship and give himself the attention he needed. I feel that this shift in perspective will be healthy for both of us, and I know that everything happens for a reason. I’m coping with this as best as I can, and despite my lack of publishing, I’ve been writing quite a bit. The situation I find myself in now, the place I’m at in life, is the opposite of where I was at the beginning of the month. It just goes to show how quickly things can change, and how nothing in life is guaranteed. In the midst of all of these drastic changes, I still managed to contribute to my goal list. Let’s check out how productive I was in August.
Completed will be bolded. In Progress will be italicized. Incomplete items will stay normal.
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Start date: May 15, 2015
End date: February 9, 2018 {5 COMPLETE, 96 TO GO} |
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6. Do at least 20 random acts of kindness. {2/20}
21. Run 500 miles. {8.5/500} 41. Put $10 in savings for every goal I cross off this list. {5/101} 47. Try 15 new restaurants. {3/15} The Mill Kitchen and Bar [5.17.15], Vuu Asian Bistro [5.28.15], Sushi Nami [6.12.15], Paizanos [8.20.15] 48. Visit 3 new breweries. {2/3} Jekyll Brewing, Alpharetta GA [6.12.15], Wicked Weed Brewing, Asheville NC [8.2.15] 49. Listen to 10 classic rock albums all the way through. {2/10} [Rumours - Fleetwood Mac (1977)], [Presence - Led Zeppelin (1976)], 79. Publish 100 posts on my blog. {33/100} 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33 81. Submit at least 10 articles for publication somewhere else. {1/10} 6 Eye-Opening Realizations You Have When Changing Your Lifestyle (Thought Catalog) 82. Get 50 people to subscribe to my blog. {16/50} 85. Launch a new blog post series. - Musical Commotion 96. Buy new running shoes for Vinnie and I. {2/2} |
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I spent some time before starting my new job working on an extra wedding present for Joey and Kristen. I painted them a watercolor picture of a scene from their wedding reception, and I’m very happy with how it turned out! I think they liked it almost more than I did, and it felt good to give someone art, as it always does. And I added to goal #10 at the same time.
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I added to my mileage count for goal #21, which made me feel a little better about it. Another goal I feel better about is #41. I’ve never been good at saving money, so I’m happy that I’m sticking to this goal the best I can. As for goal #47, you’ll have to stay tuned to hear about my first Paizanos experience. My parents have been a big fan of this pizza joint in Norcross for years, and now I finally know why. My write-up will have your mouth watering for sure. If you want to hear about my trip to Wicked Weed Brewing (another one down for goal #48!), read up on my post from my trip to Asheville earlier this month. I also added to goal #49 by listening to a less-mainstream Led Zeppelin album that was recommended to me by my sister’s fiance. I plan on recapping this in it’s own post sometime in the future.
Three and a half months in to my challenge, and I’m already a third of the way finished with goal #79 to publish 100 blog posts. I’m pretty surprised with myself, and also proud that I haven’t been slacking quite as much as I feel like I have been. It seems the more I publish, the more I want to write about. And I know that next month I will have even less time to do so. I hope I don’t lose sight of this goal and that I can keep up with this deeply important personal outlet.
This is old news to most of you now, but I was recently published on an online journal, Thought Catalog. As part of goal #81, I submitted my first article on a whim that one of the editors might like it. Well, it turns out they did, and I was ecstatic when I received an email from them. You can read my article, 6 Eye-Opening Realizations You Have When Changing Your Lifestyle, on Thought Catalog any time you like.
I managed to complete two of my goals this month, which is very exciting. Goal #85 was a spur of the moment decision that was inspired by my increasingly frequent blog posts about music. I decided to make a series of posts out of it, calling it Musical Commotion. Check out my introductory post and see what you think for yourself! As for my other completed goal, #96, I had finally owed up to a bet that Vinnie and I had made over our fantasy baseball league. Since he beat me head to head earlier last month, I owed him a new pair of shoes. He picked out some fantastic bright yellow and grey Nike sneakers that suit him well, and will hopefully encourage him to stay focused on his workout goals.
I’m really looking forward to what September has in store for me. I’ve been getting the hang of my new job, which you will be hearing about very soon. I’ve also been trying to keep myself busy and have some fun things planned that I’ll be writing about also. It’s also almost Autumn! I can’t wait for the smell of leaves, chilly night stargazing, football season, and all of the holidays that come with the changing season.
Until then, I still encourage all of you who feel like they need a change in their life to put yourself up to the 101 in 1001 challenge. Read my first post on it if you need a reminder of how I got hooked on it, and how it wasn't easy to realize that I needed this catalyst in my life. It’s a great way to prioritize and make goals for yourself that will impact your life positively. Some days, this list is the only motivation I need to know that I will wake up and do something important. Even if I don’t do anything worthwhile for anyone else that day, putting the dedication in to take care of myself is important enough for me. I hope all of you find that motivation, because in life, the only person that will be by your side the whole long and crazy trip is yourself.
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